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Andrew's post about the celebration of New Years Eve in simpler times reminded me of a succession of New Years I enjoyed in the late 1970s and the 1980s. The days when sex was not just a daily preoccupation but an essential daily activity. And there was no day - or should I say early morning - better for a memorable encounter than NYE.
You see it is a little discussed fact that there is no day of the year when cute tipsy straight young men are more amenable to a one off encounter - even if it is a gay one - than early morning New Years Day especially if their overnight expectation of scoring with a favoured lady failed to eventuate.
In those days of high sexual activity for me, a frolic in the bushes with a desperately horny good looking young straight man was a delightful way to celebrate the new year. I stress that no rape, coercion or other pressure was involved. These were straight men keen to bring, shall I say, a climax to their NYE celebrations with anyone, even another man.
Those were the days.
I have some memories of very good times at NYE warehouse parties but I suppose they were gay men, mostly.
ReplyDeleteAndrew, see my response below to Marcellous.
DeleteVictor:
ReplyDeleteThat opens a whole can of worms doesn't it?
What is a 'straight' man? Does it depend on how much he has had to drink? And why not seek a not-'straight' man - at least if one's goal were for somebody whom one might see again?
I hope you won't take this comment amiss. All of these questions beg a whole lot more and depend on a whole lot of other circumstances including generation and times. I'm guessing, for example, that the end-date of the early eighties is more a question of the big A than of any change in your own circumstances.
Happy new year from somewhere in Germany. (Ich wünsche Dir ein schönes neues Jahr, as we say around here.)
Marcellous, it is only my assumption these were a sequence of 'straight' men. It is always possible some were gay but I fancy my gaydar was reasonably good in those times. This was a period when I wasn't looking for relationships and these NYE one night stands were always intended to be just that as far as I was concerned. I know that sounds awful to many but that was my period for anonymous no strings attached sex.
DeleteBest wishes for the coming year to you.